please empty your brain below

Sorry for your loss mate, beautifuly written...thinking of you this Christmas mate

Sorry to hear this DG. I wish you strength for the days and weeks ahead.

Sorry. Thinking of you. Be strong.

sorry for your loss of mum and her voice. Hope you find latter on some video or summat. Hug.

You have my most deepest sympathies, DG.

Dear DG

Sorry to hear about your loss. Hope that 2010 is a better year for you.

Tear welling in my eyes as I type this: so sorry to hear about this DG. Sincerest condolences.

Really saddened to hear this, DG. My thoughts are with you.

You made me cry.
Wished I could give you a hug.
Couldn't be a worst time for this sort of happening.

I'm so shocked to read this entry and very sorry for your lost :( I hope you find the strength to get through this difficult time. My condolences to your family.

I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your mum. This is a terrible time, and I wish you well through it; cherish those memories of love and laughter.

Sounds like you were lucky to have a mum like her and she was equally lucky to have a loving son like you!

Sadly, the same thing happened to me; I happened to have a lovely, funny message from my dad saved on my ansaphone when he died suddenly. Used to listen to it occasionally... and then my toddler enthusiastically pressed all the buttons on the ansaphone thus erasing the message! So upsetting.

Well, the message might be gone, but her love is yours forever.

Wishing you well.

She must have been a wonderful woman to have had a son like you.

Sorry to hear your news mate..
My mum died on New years eve a few years ago.

RIP Mum & Nanna

So sorry to hear your sad news. ::hug::

I'm very sorry to hear your news DG. It is a terrible time of year for a bereavement to happen.

That's really grim, sorry to hear about it.

Being up Norfolk way, if there's owt I can do over the Festering Season, let me know.

My sincere condolences to you and your entire family. Try and be strong - I agree that your mum must have been very special to have had a son like you.

So sorry to learn of your loss, DG. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.

Sorry to read of your loss DG. My condolences, for what they are worth, to you and yours.

Oh DG, how sad. Every sympathy to you and your family.

Sorry to hear of your loss, I lost a brother at this time of year

Go in peace

Very sorry indeed to hear about your loss, especially at this time of year.

Sorry to hear of your troubles DG. My condolences. It is never easy to lose someone close to you, and at this time of year it makes it even more poignant.

Dear DG, I'm so sorry. May your lovely Mum rest in peace.

So sorry to hear your sad news.my deepest condolences.

Very sorry news. My thoughts are with you. Andrew

DG, I am so sorry.

Our thoughts are with you.

Oh, poor DG! It's horrible to lose someone dear so suddenly! You have my deepest sympathy!


I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, especially at this time of the year. You have my deepest sympathies.

So sorry to hear your news. I have enjoyed reading all your posts, but enjoy most of all your family-oriented ones, in particular the one about your parents wedding anniversary. My sincerest sympathies to you and your Dad and brother.

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss, may she Rest In Peace

Sorry to hear of your loss.

So sorry to hear your sad news - my thoughts are with you

My thoughts are with you DG.
My mother died eight years ago and your words brought it all back to me.
If only I could pick up the phone and talk to her one more time again.
What I would give.

I'm so sorry, DG - my thoughts are with you.

So sorry to hear your sad news DG. Our thoughts are with you over this difficult time.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss - Mums are so precious. You and your family are in my thoughts as you get through this horrible time.

I'm so sorry to hear your news. I'm afraid it brings back terribly upsetting thoughts for me too. Take care fella.

Very sorry to read your sad news. You only have one Mum and it's great loss when she's gone. However she lives on in your memory.
My thoughts are with you.

I'm sure words left in a comment box are of little comfort right now. But take it easy - people are thinking about you.

It's painful to lose a parent at any time. I too wasn't there when my mum died when I shouold have been and have regretted it all my life. My condolences

DG, my thoughts are with you and your family, I'm very, very saddened reading your news.
Cxx



My condolences.

So sorry to hear your news.

Sorry to hear your sad news.

Huge condolences.

So sorry for your loss, I can't imagine how it must feel. Take care DG, our thoughts are with you.

Really sorry DG.
Like others above, this post made me shed a tear.
Many hugs.

My thoughts & prayers are with you both. A xox

I know what you mean. My mum died ten years ago, and my biggest regret is that I have no record of her voice. I have bits of her handwriting, photos, things that belonged to her, but not her voice. Perhaps we should all leave recordings behind us for people to remember us by.

hugs

I'm really sorry for your loss.

My sincere condolences to you and your family.

So sorry to hear this. A beautifully written post - I hope it helps in some way.

Oh no, sorry to hear of your double loss. But it's a part of life, and you will have to adjust to life without her. Thinking of you.

Deepest, deepest condolences. Beautiful and very moving post.

So sorry DG. Deepest condolences to you and your family. That was so beautifully written.

DG, I'm so sorry and I hope that knowing the thoughts of so many followers of your blog are with you is some comfort.

A lovely post and a wonderful epitaph for your mum. Be strong.

Martin

*hugs mate*

So sorry, DG, what bum timing.

Your post so beautifully written, has been on my mind all morning. I can only imagine how sad you must be feeling on your journey today. My deepest sympathies.

I'm so sorry DG. Take care of yourself.
A.

So, so sorry to hear this.

So so sorry DG,it is never a good time to lose someone you love but this is worse somehow.
Sending strength to help you through this sad time
hugs
amber

Un abrazo y ánimo.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Thank you everybody, it has been a great comfort to read all your comments.

DG, So sorry to hear. I lost my Mum last March but at least I had a little warning. My Dad always hated my ansaphone & left rude funny messages on 'the robot' -when he died, I realised I had no record of his voice. So sympathy.
Rob

My sincere condolences to you and your family DG. I sure all your regular blog readers are thinking of you - I hope it helps in some small way.

Sincere condolences on your loss

Oh DG, so very very sorry to hear this. The time could never be right, of course... be strong as you travel with your presents to Norfolk.

Thinking of you

**hugs**

EP

So sad to hear your news, especially at this time of year - it's a tragic story, but just know that all the people whose lives you touch every day are thinking of you now and wishing you well. Time will heal the hurt and the memories will stay.

Oh my DG thats really sad especially happening so suddenly. Our thoughts are with you at this very sad time.

My sincere condolences to you and your family. I am so sad to hear that, my thought is with you.

Made me cry. And knowing that I'm the same age as you, DG, it made me resolve to have another try at mending bridges with my mother.
Looks like there are lots of people who, like me, have never met you but care about you a lot.

Condolences DG on your loss. A beautifully written post and loving tribute indeed.

A beautifully written post which made me cry. I am sure your Mum was very proud of you.

Blogs are funny things. I do not even know you but I read your posts every day. I shall be thinking of you and your family.

My thoughts are with you... really sorry to read this, DG.

Deeply sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you.

So sorry for you. Concentrate on the lifetime of love and laughter, as you so eloquently put it.

so sorry to hear of your loss. my thoughts are with you & yours. hoping that warm memories balance the pain.

Sincere sympathy to you and your Family DG. Your post today for and about your Mum was beautifully written. So, so, sorry to have read it though.

Oh so very sorry to hear that. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

My mother died 10 years ago and for ages I kept some of her clothes just so I could bury my nose in them and smell her and bring back all the memories.

Ulp. Really sorry for your loss. Your post brought tears to my eyes.

I am so sorry for your loss, especially at Christmas. As my parents are in their 70's I think of this happening some day. I know it's going to happen yet I know I won't be prepared for that day. All my sympathies

So sad. Be strong and all the best.

I am so sorry for your loss. Your whole family must be feeling deeply bereft this Christmas. May you find strength and warmth in your memories of your Mum, and in each other.

You made me cry also. How many others will appreciate their parents a tiny bit more after reading your post? You and your family are in my thoughts.

This is sad news and I add my sincere condolences for your loss to all the other heartfelt condolences left here.

My thoughts are with you DG.

Really sorry to hear the news, DG.

Heartfelt sympathies, D.G. I suppose it was a blessing that it was so quick and not entirely unexpected. I think those memories will last forever though... and not disappear when the phone message is erased.


My sympathy to you and your family during this difficult time. I can assure you that your mother will speak with you again. I recently had a dream where my mother and sister-in-law, both deceased, were having a pleasant, happy conversation together. I was standing at the edge of the image, trying to join them. My mother gently told me to be quiet, because she and Evelyn were talking. When I woke up, I was pleased for them. Take care of yourself.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, there's nothing anyone can say right now that will help, but be assured you will be in the thoughts of many, me included.
Christine

So sorry to hear this. Sincere condolences from me too.
Just recently, on one of my regular websites, members were talking about the three people they'd most like to have around their table for dinner at Christmas. One or two suggested famous figures from history. Most, however, said they'd give anything to share just one more bit of time with lost loved ones.


Deepest sympathies to you and yours, DG. That is a wonderful pic on the website and she looks a great and loving woman. My mum also died suddenly this year, so I think I know a little of what you must be feeling now. Sadness does pass and then you realise with joy what an absolutely amazing person you had as a mother. Look after yourself.

I'm so sorry to hear that DG. My thoughts are with you, Lois

There is really nothing that I can usefully add to what has already been written above. I will say though that no mother could wish for a more moving and heart-warming elegy than yours received from you today.

My deepest condolances, too, dg.

You are in my thoughts and my heart.

I am so sorry to hear about your loss, DG. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.

So sorry to hear of your loss. Peace to you and your family.

So sorry to hear this, DG. It doesn't matter how old one's Mum or Dad is. There's always a huge empty place when they go.

Oh DG, I am so, so sorry. (((((hugs)))))
You are all in my thoughts.

As always, it's your personal posts, rare though they are; that are always the most thought-provoking and touching.

Reading your post reminded me of this poem. I am sorry for your loss.

A Reminiscence by Anne Bronte
[extract]

Yes, thou art gone! and never more
Thy sunny smile shall gladden me;
...
The lightest heart that I have known,
The kindest I shall ever know.

Yet, though I cannot see thee more,
'Tis still a comfort to have seen;
And though thy transient life is o'er,
'Tis sweet to know that thou hast been;

To think a soul so near divine,
Within a form, so angel fair,
United to a heart like thine,
Has gladdened once our humble sphere.

Really, really sorry to hear this. Thoughts with you.

Very sorry to read this DG. I will be thinking of you.

Your love and respect for your Mum have always been so apparent in all the years I've known you. And the most important thing - she knew In The Living Years; not least because of all your wonderful tributes here.

You know my love and thoughts are with you all.

xxx

So sorry to hear about your loss, DG.

thinking of you so much.

So very, very sorry.

My thoughts are with you. So sad particularly at Christmas, really sorry to hear this.

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences.

My deepest condolences. Terrible news at any time, but it always seems a little more terrible around Christmas.

Really sorry to read that, and I can relate to your heartbreak. My heartfelt condolences.

So sorry to read this.

I am so sorry for your loss. When my dad died my mom kept his voice on their answering machine, and it was very comforting. It vanished somehow, and it was almost like losing him again.

Really sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry for your loss.

I, too, am facing my first Christmas without my Mum. She died last month from cancer, at just 56.

I'm looking at the clock now counting the minutes until it's Christmas, with tears rolling down my cheeks and disbelief in my heart that she is not here to share it.

It's hard. The hardest thing I've ever had to go through. I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

Be strong, and know you're not alone.

Very sorry to read of your loss, DG, and thank you for taking the time to write this beautiful post which sums up what others of us have been through too. (I had just the same thing, I hadn't kept an answerphone message and it was one of the first things I thought of after she died. But I found I could remember her voice perfectly. I still can, and she's been gone eight years now.)
All best wishes to you.

I am so very, very sorry for your loss.

My condolences DG.

I'm so sorry to hear this. I will be thinking of you and your family. Such a sad time.

Like so many of your other readers, I am so sorry to hear of your very big loss.

I don't have adequate words, but my sincerest thoughts are with you.

I'm so sorry to hear your news. Losing a loved one is always difficult but I think there's an added poignancy at this time of year.

I have an answerphone tape somewhere in a box 12,000 miles away with my grandmothers voice on it. Like you, I kept it because I knew there would come a time when that would be the only way I'd hear her voice. One day I'll listen to it again.

You're in my thoughts.

I don't suppose there is a good time of year to hear such news, but this definitely isn't it. Very sorry to hear of your loss, DG. I hope you manage to have a peaceful Christmas, and remember all the wonderful ones you had from years gone by.

Deepest sympathies with you today. I
Hope you can raise a glass with your family to your mum and help each other.
Mr BW

Thank you for your beautifully written post. I lost my mum in January, this is our first year without her, and your words made my breath catch in my throat. I am trying to make new memories now while treasuring the old, it's all I can do. Love cx

I'm so, so sorry DG. Look after yourself xx

I'm so sorry mate, love from the Flaneur crew in Chingford.

CF

Sorry to hear the tragic news of you loss DG.

I just chanced upon your website through time out and nearly wept when i read about your mom. So sorry to hear that. My deepest sympathies.

My deepest condolences.
The mother –son relationship is so special.
Chin up.

So sorry to read about the loss of your mother, DG.

I do so very much associate with your notes about those electronic traces, and feel sorry about that deleted voice mail.

Having lost my own mum earlier this year I've re-read her last text messages to me again and again.

oh DG, i am sorry. may you find some comfort with loved ones where you are now.

We've (probably) never met, but as an ex-pat Londoner of seemingly the same generation your blog has long provided me with a link to a familiar past that has been erased by time, space, gastro-pubs and redevelopment projects. You could have not posted for a month or so, but instead chose to blog about your mum's passing. Many of us have been where you are now, and the rest of us know we will be there one day as the price for a long life. I hope the new year brings some time to remember her with warmth and love.
Best wishes, Paul.

Words of sympathy and good wishes just don't touch the sides, DG, but they are all I have to offer.

The unimaginable becomes bearable, and the bittersweet toast to "Absent Friends" becomes more sweet, less bitter.

Shocked, saddened and moved by what I've just read. Thoughts are with you and yours, DG.

Sorry to hear the sad news about the death of your Mum. It is good of you to share something so personal with us in such an eloquent post. The lifetime of memories you have is so much more precious than any image or recording.

So sorry for your loss, DG. Hugs and condolences x

So sorry to hear this terrible news.

So sorry to hear this.

Very nicely written at a very difficult time. When much much younger, I recorded my mother on a portable C30 tape with microphone,asking if I wanted some Horlicks for bedtime and wanting to know what music I was listening to,in her magnified Lancashire accent...I still have it somewhere,kept for similar reasons. Very best wishes,Felix

I'm so sorry DG.

JonnyB.

Love and sincere condolences to you and your family DG xxx

Sincerest condolences to you and your family.
Davieboy

Dear DG,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts go out to you and your family; I wish all of you love and peace at this sad time.

You are all in my thoughts,

Zoe x

I too have no record of my mum's voice. It took a while after her death but I can now recall her speaking voice, clear as anything. It will come, believe me.

Really sorry for your loss, lost my dad this year, its very difficult.

Best wishes to you and your family. X

So sorry to hear this. All the best to you and you loved ones.

So sorry DG. Look after yourself.

So sorry to read of your loss. Have some hugs, I hope you find comfort and peace.

My condolences.
It's always a shock, not matter how prepared we think we are. Having the the death of a parent occur at
Christmas makes the grief sharper.
( The added hassles are another subject).

I am so sorry to hear this. Anne

Sorry for your loss DG; how very sad, at this time of year in particular.

Wishing you and your loved ones all the best.

My thoughts are with you DG xxx

DG, really sorry to hear of your loss. All best wishes to you and your family at this difficult time. CU

So sorry to hear this. All the best at this difficult time, DG

Sorry for your loss mate. My thoughts are with you and yur family. God Bless.

So very sorry to hear of the passing of your beloved mum. Just before I came to this blog and and read today's (28th) entry and realising what this meant, I was uploading some videos I shot whilst abroad with my mum last month. I was feeling somewhat annoyed at her for talking over one of the best videos - really banal comments like 'keep hold of your phone, don't drop it' etc. I now know to treasure that video.

My thoughts are with you and your loved ones as you head into the new year and decade without one of the pillers of your family.

So very sorry to hear. Best wishes to you and yours...

Condolences

Very sorry to read of your loss. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I hope that some of these messages show how much your writing means to your readers and that you see some brighter days soon. Take care.

Been away for ten days in France and on returning I decided to check 10\% of my feeds. Yours was always going to be one of them but what I met with really shocked me.

Losing a parent's so hard, no matter what the circumstances. But I think in days, weeks, years to come people will take comfort in the words you've written. Beautiful. So sorry for your loss.

So sorry for your loss DG it's so hard this time of year. Your post is beautifully written; I was reminded of my Mum leaving me a message when I first got an ansaphone and she ended it with "lots of love, Mummy" like in a letter. I kept it for years but somehow it got wiped but I can still remember her voice and am smiling now just thinking of it.

I am so sorry. Great for her that it was quick but such a shock for all of the rest of you. Take care of yourself. G

So so sorry to hear of your Mum's passing. My thoughts are with you. Joe

So very sorry to hear this news and I don't think this post could be any more heartfelt.

Sorry to hear this

so sorry to read about your loss.

You sometimes complain about feedreader followers, not visiting the site and missing out on the comments.
Well, I follow via RSS, and this is my first comment. This post was very moving.
With deepest sympathy and condolences.
-Barney

You are in my thoughts DG.

I am so sorry to read that, DG.

Sending you my deepest sympathies all the way from California. Thank you for sharing with us your lovely sentiments of your mother. She sounded like a very special person. Please know that you and your family are being thought of during this difficult time.

Hi DG.

I'm so sorry.

Things like this hit me pretty hard too.

My grandmother died in 1975. I was close to her and it took me ages to get over losing her. But after awhile you just begin to appreciate and love the impact and influence these people have had on your life.

Best regards, Ian.

Sympathy.

We all know it'll happen, but that doesn't help when it does.

Just read your sad news. Our thoughts are with you.

I add my condolences to those of the many other commenters. I hope you can taek some small comfort that you are able to express your feelings so beautifully. My eyes are still wet....and I will be thinking about you, and your mom, tonight and beyond. Now I'm going to call my mom just to say I love her.

very sorry to hear your sad news, and it's no surprise that you write about what happened with such style and dignity. And I am reminded that 15 years on, I can't remember what my dad's voice was like...

Dear DG,

I've only just looked at your site having been on a bit of a hiatus over Christmas and I'm so sorry to hear about your mum. I lost my mum on the 15th August and I know how you are feeling. I've been reading your blog on and off for years now as an expat Londoner in the Gulf, its always been a taste of home. I'm so sorry that you are going though grief right now. xxx

Me too DG, and to think I was enjoying catching up on your New Year and 2009 highlights. Now I feel like I have just been punched in the face.

I am so sorry to hear about your Mum, that piece was beautifully and bravely written. RIP Mrs DG.

Oh dear, DG, I am so sorry to read that. Deepest sympathies.

I was catching up on your New Year and Xmas stuff and was incredibly moved by your writing about your Mum.

Beautifuly written, and written with true emotion.

My deepest sympathies DG.











TridentScan | Privacy Policy